Planning a wedding in Bordeaux
How to plan a wedding in Bordeaux wine country from abroad: when to marry, the harvest, the legal side, getting guests there and the wedding weekend.
Bordeaux is the obvious answer for couples who want their wedding to taste of somewhere. The city is grand and easy to reach, and within half an hour you are in vineyards that roll on for miles, dotted with stone châteaux and small working estates. A wedding here is rarely a single day. It is a weekend of long tables, good wine and guests who stay on to explore.
This guide covers the decisions that matter most, in the order most couples make them.
When to get married in Bordeaux
The season decides the weather, the light, the price and how busy the region is.
- May: fresh and green, with the vines just coming into leaf. Quieter and often better value, with a little more chance of rain.
- June: long, warm evenings and the vines in full leaf. The most popular month, so the best Saturdays go early.
- July and August: hot, especially inland, and the region’s busiest holiday months. Plan an evening ceremony and plenty of shade.
- Early September: golden light and heavy bunches on the vines. Many couples think it is the best time of year.
- Mid-September to early October: the harvest. Estates are at their busiest in the vines and cellar, and many pause weddings. Ask before you fall for a date.
- October: cooler, with autumn colour in the vineyards once the harvest is in. Have a good indoor plan.
The legal side
A legal marriage in France takes place at the town hall (the mairie), and one of you usually needs to have lived in that town for around 40 days beforehand. For most couples from abroad, that isn’t practical.
The usual answer is to marry legally at home, before or after, and hold a symbolic ceremony in France. It can include vows, readings and a celebrant of your choice, and for your guests it is the wedding. In a vineyard, it often takes place in the rows themselves, late in the afternoon when the sun is low.
Choosing a venue
Bordeaux venues range from grand classified châteaux to small family estates and modern wineries. A few questions narrow the list quickly:
- Exclusive use or shared? Many estates also run tastings and tours. Ask whether the estate closes to visitors for your stay.
- Where does everyone sleep? Some estates sleep 20 or 30 guests, others none. Check what is nearby for everyone else, and how far it is.
- What is the rain plan? A chai or barrel hall often makes the best wet-weather space, and some of the most memorable dinners happen there anyway.
- Can you serve the estate’s wine? Most estates are happy to, and it is often the reason couples choose them. Ask about cellar prices and corkage if you want to bring your own.
- Who caters? Many venues work with a list of approved caterers who know their kitchen. Ask for a tasting and a clear per-head price.
Getting your guests there
Bordeaux is one of the easiest wine regions in France to reach.
- By air: Bordeaux-Mérignac has direct flights from London, Dublin and many European cities. Bergerac, further east, has seasonal flights from the UK.
- By train: the high-speed line from Paris reaches Bordeaux Saint-Jean in about two hours, which suits guests coming from further afield via Paris.
- On the ground: most vineyard estates are 30 to 60 minutes from the airport. Arrange transfers for arrival and departure days, and a shuttle on the wedding day if guests are staying in nearby villages.
Send travel details early. Guests from North America in particular book flights months ahead.
How a wine-country wedding weekend works
Most couples plan a weekend rather than a single day:
- Friday: guests arrive, a tasting in the cellar, then a relaxed dinner.
- Saturday: the ceremony in the vines in the late afternoon, drinks on the terrace, dinner and dancing.
- Sunday: a long lunch outside, and a slow goodbye.
An extra day lets guests see Saint-Émilion, the city of Bordeaux or the Atlantic coast, and makes the travel worth it for everyone.
A note on this guide
This guide sits on a concept venue website built by VenuePartner to show how a wedding venue in France can help couples plan. The advice applies to any Bordeaux wedding. If you’d like to see how a venue presents its spaces, prices and dates, have a look at the estate and how weddings work here.
Common questions
- Can foreigners get legally married in France?
- Yes, but a legal French marriage takes place at the town hall, and one partner usually needs to have lived in that town for around 40 days first. That is why most couples from abroad marry legally at home and hold a symbolic ceremony in France.
- What is the best month for a wedding in Bordeaux?
- June and early September are the most popular, with warm days and long evenings. May and October are quieter. Many wine estates pause weddings during the harvest, usually from mid-September into early October, so check before you set a date.
- How do guests get to a Bordeaux wedding?
- Most fly into Bordeaux-Mérignac, which has direct flights from the UK, Ireland and much of Europe, or take the high-speed train from Paris, which takes about two hours. Estates in the vineyards are usually 30 to 60 minutes from the airport by car.